"Contrasts and Contradictions" RESCUE RADIO with Marjorie Cole


The Word of God seems to be full of contradictions. Jesus is called the Prince of Peace, yet He warns that He has come to send division, setting two against three in families and war in the place of peace. And what about rejecting the concept of man fear, as Paul declares in Galatians 1:10 "Or do I seek to please men? For if I still pleased men, I would not be a servant of Christ." Then He says, "For though I am free from all men, I have made myself a servant to all that I might win the more;" I Cor. 9:19 How do these seeming contradictions work themselves out into one truth? We must understand that the Word of God is complete and does not contradict itself any more than God contradicts Himself. Truth is like a coin. The coin has two sides, heads and tails. Neither one is complete without the other. Both are true, as determined by the time and the context of the issue, as is often acknowledged in the use of a coin to determine and settle a matter. Why? Because both sides are considered of equal value. Only God has the wisdom to live peacefully within the context of His own determinations. We are called to trust Him and be guided by the Holy Spirit to know what time it is, and which understanding is relevant to the moment.
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"Because There Is A War For Your Soul"
00:28 - Opening Prayer and Purpose
02:35 - Addressing Biblical Contradictions
03:35 - The Nature of Peace and Division
07:17 - Understanding Jesus’ Role as Prince of Peace
09:29 - Reconciliation with Self
11:13 - The Call to Salvation
12:27 - The Process of Finding Peace
14:03 - The Legacy of Peace
15:34 - Navigating Relationships and Conflict
16:37 - Adapting the Message of Christ
22:19 - The Importance of Audience Awareness
24:45 - Wisdom in Communication
28:27 - Trials and Forgiveness
29:33 - Insights from ”Doing Relationships God’s Way”
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Rescue Radio, because there's a war for your soul.
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Yes, Father God, we know we're in it, and it's here.
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And we thank you for the peace. We thank you for the protection that you've
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given us in the midst of the war.
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We thank you that your kingdom comes, your will be done on earth,
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in and through all of us, as it's being already done in heaven.
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Lord God, you said, pray, deliver us from evil, keep us from the evil one.
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So we pray, Father, that the evil one who's been just rampant these days will
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be contained and bound and removed, and that your Spirit will move forward mightily in the land.
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Thank you, Jesus, for your decision to die on the cross for us.
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Thank you for saving our lives. Thank you for saving our souls.
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Thank you that you made that option of eternal life available to whosoever will,
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and I pray that today many will receive that option and not go into eternal damnation.
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I bind the powers of darkness that have so blurred and skewed the true concepts
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of what's going on and what's at stake here, that those enemies would be removed.
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The enchantments, the deceptions and distractions would be bound and removed,
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Father, that we can see clearly, lift the fog in our brains and in around us,
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that we will see what's going on.
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I thank you, Jesus, for the truth. You said you shall know the truth.
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The truth will set you free. Thank you for that freedom. Thank you for each
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one who's listening today. I pray that you would encourage their hearts,
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Father God, to walk in the fullness of the things that you have created them
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to experience and walk in the destiny and the fullness of the completion of
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your love in their lives.
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And we thank you, Father, for the promise that no weapon formed against us will prosper.
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We declare that over ourselves, over the remnant, over the church,
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over the righteous, that nothing Satan tries to do through witchcraft or treachery
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or betrayal or deception will deceive or destroy the elect, Father God.
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Those are called that have decided to follow you, Lord God, that you protect
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them, that no word, said, deed, done, or action taken against them will be able
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to be used by the enemy to bring forth any shame, trouble, or reproach.
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We do not agree with the enemy in his plan.
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We agree with you, Lord God, and we declare you are the Lord God.
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Thank you in Jesus' name. Amen.
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Amen. Well, the people have often said that the Bible, We don't believe the
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Bible because the Bible is full of contradictions. Yeah, and paradoxes.
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Paradoxes. But there are no
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contradictions in the Bible. There's different contexts for different...
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Situations and actions that God takes, but there are some contrasts.
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You know, like the two-sided coin, there's a heads and a tails.
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So, there are some contrasts in the Bible.
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That seem to contradict. That seem to contradict, but they really don't.
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Everything in the scripture is complementary. It all blends together in a beautiful unity.
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So we need to see that and recognize that and just be at peace with that.
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The truth sets us free. And the truth is like a two-sided coin.
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There's heads and tails. There's both complement and complete the whole concept
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of the truth. And I think we're going to look at a couple of these right now.
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Because sometimes people get hung on one side. They think it's a right or left
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or, you know, on one side of the spectrum, and they don't realize that you can't
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live over on the left side or the right side and not lose your balance.
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You have to walk in the revelation of the truth to walk in balance and walk in stability.
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And I just think of the angels on the night Jesus was born, when they appeared to the shepherds.
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And what they were singing was this, Glory to God in the highest,
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and on earth, peace, goodwill toward men.
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Well, we haven't had peace since then.
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Not much goodwill toward men. Not much before that and not much after that.
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But we can have peace in our hearts, and I think that's where the peace begins.
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Right. Well, let's look at this. In Isaiah 9, verse 6, this is the prophecy
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concerning Jesus Christ. for unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given,
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and the government will be upon his shoulder.
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Oh, hallelujah, when that happens. Amen, amen.
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And his name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God,
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Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
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So he's the ruler of peace, the bringer of peace.
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But then there's another part of this that,
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seems to be contradictory. Right. He says, I've come, well, it's in Luke for
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one, and then in Matthew as well. Go ahead and read that in Luke.
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He says, I came to send fire on the earth and how I wish that it were already kindled.
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This is Luke 12, 49.
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But I have a baptism to be baptized with and how distressed I am until it is accomplished.
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Do you suppose that I came to give peace on earth? I tell you not at all, but rather division.
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For from now on, five will be in the house. One will be divided,
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three against two, and two against three.
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The father will be divided against the son, and the son against the father,
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the mother against the daughter, the daughter against the mother,
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mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.
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So what he is really saying here is the Prince of Peace, that he has come toâhe embodies peace.
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He is the God of peace. He brings peace to our souls. He brings peace to our relationships.
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He calms the anxiety. He gives us wisdom. He removes the confusion.
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But at the same time, he recognizes Satan is the divider.
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And Satan's plot is to divide and
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conquer, to set us up in opposition to ourselves, to each other, to God.
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And so that division creates weakness. And so, therefore.
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Jesus is warning us that these divisions, these painful divisions in relationships
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where there's going to be mother against child and father against a son and
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all these kinds, that's where we are right now.
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We're in the middle of the end days.
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And so, the offenses, the lawlessness, the bitterness. And see how this division
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in families has only been more recent.
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I mean, yes, there's been squabbles and bitterness all along and bloodlines
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and things like that because of injustices and lost inheritances and all kinds of things.
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But this widespread animosity, bitterness, disrespect, whatever you want to
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call it, between human beings is just...
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Where we are right now, it's widespread. And so he's telling us that this is
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a sign not only of his coming and of the end, but it's also part of that truth
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coin because there's going to be this division.
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There's going to be the bitterness on the one side. And yet Jesus Christ himself is the Prince of Peace.
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Yeah, and he says, people are going to hate you. He says, they hated me.
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Now, some people really love Jesus, obviously, thank God.
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And some people just hated him.
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Still today. Mostly religious people hated him, the ones that were bound in
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law and tradition. Well, they were insecure and jealous and worried about their
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positions. Yeah, exactly.
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And so we're at this place right now where there are people that really take
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a stand for the Lord in their family.
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And some of you maybe have been through that. Maybe you came out of a certain
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religious tradition. Then you really got to know Jesus and love Jesus.
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And people are just grieved because of, you know, oh, you've got religion or
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you've joined a cult or something like that.
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So it's at the place right now where there is misunderstanding.
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A lot of times there's that division because there's misunderstanding.
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Well, and that's purposeful. People are in darkness. It's the difference between
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if you've come into the light, you're going to be opposed by the darkness.
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That's what Jesus said too.
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But the root of that is the enemy's bitterness against God, and all he has left
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is to sow discord among brethren.
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And we see that among brethren even, and we see almost shockingly in these last
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days, even things that we would seem to think all would agree are good or honorable or righteous.
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I mean, the enemy is able to bring a twist even to the things that appear godly
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and good and set up wars about it and dissension among even the brethren. So here's the deal.
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In this Jesus Christ coming as the Prince of Peace, that peace has got to begin in our souls.
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It has to begin in our own relationship with God and with ourselves.
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We have to be reconciled to ourselves. It has to be reconciled to the fact that
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we are not what we do. We're not what people say we do.
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Yes, we did bad things many times, but those things were instigated by the enemy who deceived us.
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And we have to recognize that's not who I really am. Who I really am is who
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God says I really am, and I am his son or daughter created in his image.
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And these sins and wicked things that we've done are not befitting a son or a daughter.
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So when we reconcile back into the truth of who we are, we come back into the
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peace of who we are, then the Prince of Peace can live in us no matter what
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is going on out there, which is the only place you can secure your peace is
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in your relationship with yourself and God.
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Yeah, peace is found, true peace is found in Jesus Christ and Romans chapter
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five, verses one and two, therefore being justified by faith.
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In other words, being put in a position that you, just as if I'd never sinned,
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you know, by faith in Jesus Christ, because we're saved because of his righteousness not ours.
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We're justified by faith. We have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.
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That peace with God, there's not that hostility that we have toward God.
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God is not hostile toward us. He loves us and everything like that,
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but our own sin, our own rebellion,
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we're inspired by Satan to come into a hostility toward God.
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But when we have peace with God, though we have through whom we have access,
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through Jesus Christ, we have access by faith into this grace in which we stand
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and rejoice in the hope of the glory of God.
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Well, this is the decision we make, though. We have to step out of the narrative,
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the world system, the snake pit, the God of this world, all the things that
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he has used to program us, to barrage us, to create sin and discord inside of
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us, and repent and receive the revelation, the reconciliation of Jesus Christ.
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That's what this is talking about. This is available to everyone.
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There is no respecter of persons with God, young, old, rich, poor.
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We all have to come the very same way. And that is through Jesus Christ,
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through his blood sacrifice, his atoning sacrifice for our sins.
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And a lot of people, they know about Jesus and maybe they've heard of salvation,
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but they really don't know how to enter into it.
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So if you are listening today and you have people like that in your world that
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don't know what it means to be saved or how to get saved, I think that's probably
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one of the stumbling blocks. It is simple.
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It's just whosoever believes in their heart, confesses with their mouth that
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Jesus Christ died on the cross, rose from the dead, and is coming back,
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believes and confesses this is the...
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The key. The way. The way to salvation. The way to Jesus.
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Because you're surrendering to him, saying, okay, I can't save myself.
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He who seeks to save his life will lose it. And so you're surrendering.
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This means we have to stop and realize that we're lost, first of all,
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that we can't keep going this way. We are running out of gas. We don't have enough.
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We've lost the map. We don't know where we're going. And so we want this guide,
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the Holy Spirit to come and guide us, live inside of us. And so this is the beginning of peace.
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And so when people are out of sorts with themselves, don't like themselves,
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are mad at themselves, that's when their body becomes sick also.
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Or when they're mad or blaming other people or making excuses,
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they're just delaying the process of the folly that Satan has put upon them
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to walk into their own death. Those are death traps.
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Yeah, so we come into that peace regardless of what's going on,
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even if we have opposition from family members. like Jesus talked about,
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we have a misunderstanding.
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He knew what the devil was going to do. He knew the devil was going to separate us.
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Because Jesus said, by their love, they shall know them. You shall know that
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they are my disciples by the love.
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And so Satan hates the love. He hates the unity. He hates the kindness.
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He hates the hope and the bearing one another's burdens. He hates all of that unity. He hates it.
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And so Jesus prepares us by saying, there's going to come a story.
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He says, I am the dividing line. I am the plumb line.
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Once I come into the world, everything now, nothing is going as usual.
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You have to make a choice.
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He gave us that option. So he is the turning point and the beginning for all
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of mankind to turn back from destruction to him.
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But he also knew that we would be very, very conflicted in that turning around.
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And he said, Paul writes, he said, if as much as lies within you,
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do whatever you can to be at peace with all men.
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Do what you can to get along with. sometimes you just can't get along with somebody
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because of the opposition, the attitude of their heart.
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But we don't go back because if we're opposed, we don't go into bitterness or
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unforgiveness or anything like that.
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That's not the way of peace. But what Jesus said, the peace that he came to
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bring, this is what he said in John chapter 14.
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He was talking to his disciples about, you know, he's going to go.
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He's leaving for a minute. He's going for a bit, and he's going to the cross.
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He's going to die. He's going to rise again. He's going to return.
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But then he said, in the meantime, he says, I'm sending you the helper.
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I'm sending you the Holy Spirit. In John 14, verse 27, here's what he says.
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Peace I leave with you. Amen. My peace I leave with you.
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I give to you. Not as the world gives, do I give to you.
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Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
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So he says, I'm going to give you a legacy of peace. It's not the world's peace.
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It's just like, oh, we're not, there's a pause in the fighting. Yeah.
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A lasting peace is not that.
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A brief, shaky pause in the fighting. That's the world's idea of peace.
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There's no peace unless you have peace in your heart and be connected with Jesus
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Christ who is the Prince.
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The Prince of Peace. And so, again, okay, so that is the resolution of that first conundrum.
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How can there be peace when there's so much division?
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Well, you know, because both sides are operating here.
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So, understanding that Jesus Christ reconciles us, brings us to peace,
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we can live in peace with Him,
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we can live in peace as much as possible with all men, but also that there is
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that division that comes because of the conflict.
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That's how we know the peace of God. Yeah, and then again, in the context of
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our relationships here, there's another contrast that we can look at, a comparison contrast.
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And again, looking at the context, what's going on around this?
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What is the setting? What is the situation? What time is it?
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Like in Ecclesiastes, that's something to really ponder.
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We've shared a lot about, you know, don't set up boundaries,
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but it's a matter of what time is it?
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And we can only know that by the Spirit of God, by the Word of God, by the Spirit of God.
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But here's another example of a⦠Conundrum.
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A contrast in Scripture, okay?
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So he says in 1 Corinthians 9, 19, For though I am free from all men,
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I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win the more.
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And to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win the Jews.
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And to those who are under the law, as under the law, that I might win those who are under the law.
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To those who are without law, that would be pretty much the pagan Gentile world,
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kind of like where we are today, is without law, not being without law toward
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God, but under law toward Christ, that I may win those who are without the law.
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And he says, to the weak I became as weak that I might win the weak.
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I have become all things to all men that by all means I may save some. And hold on.
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In Galatians, the same man who's talking in Corinthians says,
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in Galatians chapter 1, he says, verse 10, For do I now persuade men or God?
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Or do I seek to please men? For if I still pleased men, I would not be a servant of Christ.
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So he's saying that this man-fear, man-people-pleasing thing that,
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you know, has gripped so many of us to keep the peace and keep,
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you know, things, you know, reasonable.
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He says, that's man-fearing. He says, if I'm pleasing men, seeking to please
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men, how do I be the servant of God, of Christ?
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And so here he's saying, on the one hand, I do all these things,
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become all these things, that I might by all means win some to the,
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you know, to the weak. I become weak to the whatever, all that you just read.
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But here he's saying, now, how do you reconcile that?
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How do you reconcile a man who says, I'm not going to practice man fear and
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people pleasing because that would put those people as an idol before the Lord
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Jesus Christ, and I would not be his servant.
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So this fear of man, fear of man is one of the concepts that he's dealing with in Galatians.
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But in Corinthians, he's talking about what? He's talking about not compromising
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the message, but adapting the message, the message of Jesus Christ.
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So he's not adapting himself, and he's not changing the message.
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He's just changing the way he presents the message.
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Yeah, I mean, you're going to talk to a farmer probably a little different than
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you would talk to a mechanic or a teenager.
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Or you talk to them a little differently than you would a senior citizen in a nursing home.
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It's just understanding the context in which you're presenting this unchangeable message.
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And understanding the people you're talking to also.
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Know who you're talking to. And the thing is, the first thing is,
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if you're going to do public speaking, you've got to know who your audience is.
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Right. You know, and soâ Well, think of all the stories Jesus told about sheep
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and shepherds and things, because there's a lot of sheep and shepherds.
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He related to everybody. And then there were fishermen, so he was telling fishermen stories.
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So he was telling the same message, just using a little bit more relevant understanding
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concepts for the various audiences.
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And that's what Paul's talking about in 1 Corinthians 9.
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Now, another thing, then the flip side of that in Galatians is he says,
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I'm not here to be a men pleaser.
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I'm not here to give in to the opinions that.
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Of people. I'm not here to, how can I say it?
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Yeah, well, he goes on to say in Galatians, as I was reading there,
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he says, But I make known to you, brethren, that the gospel which was preached
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by me is not according to men.
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He's saying, I didn't pick this up from Peter and Paul and the people at Jerusalem.
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He says, For I neither received it from men, nor was I taught it.
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Or in other words, go to school to learn it. But it came through the revelation
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of Jesus Christ. You know, when Paul got saved or knocked down and converted
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and came to him in his senses, he actually took off for about three years into
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the desert and he was quiet.
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He didn't go and try to figure all this out and quickly connect with the big
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head honchos in Jerusalem.
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And so he took it. So the gospel that he received became his.
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I mean, it was, you know, when you get saved, the gospel.
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It was clean and straight. Right. Because it was right from the Lord.
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It came by revelation. that came of Jesus Christ.
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Well, I remember one time that, you know, how you receive the gospel,
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who brings you the gospel, the person, the situation, the church.
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The way that comes to you.
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Sometimes we connect with those people.
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We become very dependent upon them. We become very respectful. That's good.
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But at the same time, we almost, you know, revere them more than the Lord Jesus
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Christ and the gospel that they
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presented. Maybe even they presented the gospel in a very twisted way.
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But nonetheless, our allegiance is not to them, but is to the Lord God and to
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the purity of the word, the gospel of Jesus Christ. Because there was an example, too, in Corinth.
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Some were saying they were divided unnecessarily. Some of the people in the
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church were saying, I am of Paul, I am of Paulus, I am of Christ.
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They were divided. They all had their favorite preachers, and they said,
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well, we're following our favorite preacher here.
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No, Paul says, that's not it. We're just servants by whom you believe. That's it.
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Your focus has to keep on Jesus Christ.
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And I really believe, too, that if we are still trying to man fear and people
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please, if we're still doing that, we're really not walking in the fullness
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of the power of knowing the relationship we have with Jesus Christ, the Son of God.
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We have to put people in their place, so to speak, and their place is not in front of.
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And so many of us operate in fear. Well, I can't say that if I say that.
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At the one point, you know, there may be wisdom in not saying something at a
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certain place in a certain situation.
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There may be the Holy Spirit saying, don't say anything, silence,
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you know, don't, they're not ready to hear, don't throw your pearls before swine.
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There are places, everything has a time and a season. And so we are walking
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in the counsel of the Holy Spirit who's guiding us and so you may say nothing
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and that may not be man fear or people pleasing it may be the direction of the Holy Spirit,
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So don't allow the enemy to continue and say, we are such a coward.
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You should have said something right there.
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Because some people, they bite that hook, and they think they have to tell everybody
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the whole gospel and preach it in their face and shove it down their throat.
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And this is not wisdom. He who wins souls is wise. So you have to know where
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they're at, what's relevant.
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You really need wisdom in how to start that conversation.
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You may start it with a question. You may start it with an observation with
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them. But what you really want to do is know your audience, know where they're
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at, know where they're hurting, and love them.
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The real power of not fearing man but fearing God is knowing the love of God
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that God has for you and your love towards people.
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So when you love people, that doesn't mean you have to become a doormat to everything
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they need. Actually, there's got to be a lot of wisdom in that,
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too, and we'll get to that in a minute.
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But what time is it? Is it time to go the second mile, turn the other cheek,
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or not even eat with them?
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So there's a lot of things. You can't say, okay, it's always this,
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or it's always that, or give me the three-step program to winning this or doing that.
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It's life. It's life. You have to be involved in your life and know that you're
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involved with Jesus Christ in His life, and then also through that ministry
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to the people around you.
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Ecclesiastes 3, verse 1, To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven.
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So really in all things, it's like, you know, what time is it?
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And a question too, like, okay, why am I doing this? What does Jesus want me to know here?
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Am I doing this because I feel compelled by the Holy Spirit to tell them the
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gospel, to speak this word?
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I mean, yes, there's going to be more and more of that boldness coming out,
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I'm sure, because there's more urgency.
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But at the same time, there's a time to be quiet and a time to speak.
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And, you know, maybe you're living with someone who is very adamant against the gospel.
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And, you know, all you do is, you know, create, you know, strife. Uritate them. Yeah.
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And then we go back to this concept where, you know, we preach the gospel,
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but Jesus also said that your light so shine before men. Now, lights don't speak.
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Lights just reveal. And so when you're in that place where you cannot speak,
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or your words are rejected, or they're misunderstood, or they're thrown back
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in your face, or it's throwing pearls before swine.
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Then you get to be a light and just be then that light and let your light so
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shine with joy and peace and praise.
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And remember, in every situation, there's no law against thanking God and rejoicing.
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And we're coming into the season of thanksgiving.
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So in everything, give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
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And even in things that are difficult or unfair or scary or deadly,
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in everything, when you give thanks and you rejoice, You're actually saying,
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God, I believe you've got this.
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I don't have to fret. I don't have to become anxious.
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It's not my problem. You've got this. So thanksgiving and rejoicing are your
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two best friends when it comes to putting words out of your mouth when a situation happens.
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Rejoice and be thankful and be gentle to all men. Okay.
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I just want to read this, and there's someone that really needs to hear this today.
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In 1 Peter 3, be wise, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands.
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That doesn't mean be a doormat.
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Doesn't mean put up with being beaten or anything like that.
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That even if some do not obey the word, they without a word may be won by the conduct of their wives.
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When they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear, do not let your adornment
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be merely outward, or arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel,
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but rather let it be the person of the heart with the incorruptible beauty of
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a gentle and quiet spirit,
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which is very precious in the sight of God. Right.
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So, Lord, I'm praying right now forâ Many.
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There's a wife here, maybe several wives, that you have a husband that is not
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believing that, not where he should be.
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Maybe he's mistreating you. Maybe he's just kind of ignoring you.
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But I would just pray that you, by the grace of God, and don't feel the pressure.
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Just love Jesus and let the Lord God lead you. Be your comfort.
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Be your comfort, be your strength, and just keep praying for him,
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believing for him, and just let your light so shine that your godly character,
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and don't be just nagging, don't be just bugging, but there's times where you do speak the truth.
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You know, you speak the truth, but you're not just railing on them all the time.
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But maybe you just speak the truth sometimes through your actions and through forgiveness.
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Lots and lots and lots of heaps of forgiveness. Lots of forgiveness,
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but God will give you words to say, too.
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And also recognize, don't feel sorry for yourself. That's not from heaven.
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What you want to do is recognize that whatever, for all of us,
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whatever trial, whatever pressure, whatever situation you're in,
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God has designed it for optimum pressure and temperature to create and forge
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the image of Jesus Christ in us.
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So there's pressure and there's heat to bring us, to make us more like Jesus.
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So you're not going to get out of the trial, out of the battle.
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We're in it, but we can rejoice in it. So Father God, we thank you for each
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one who's listening today for giving them courage and encouragement and give
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them an understanding of the things that seem to be perplexing and contradictory,
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like going the second mile, turning the other cheek, or not even eating with them.
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The question is not what the line is, what the boundary is, but the question is, what time is it?
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So help us to understand and hear from you and understand and know what time
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it is in our lives and to spend our lives not feeling sorry for ourselves,
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not feeling ripped off, not feeling angry or agitated, but feeling grateful
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to you, Lord God, for your divine peace and protection over us, Father, in Jesus' name.
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Amen. Amen. Well, you've got a wonderful book called Doing Relationships God's Way. Oh, yeah.
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And there's a lot of situations in there that you talk about that are very difficult, you know.
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And so it doesn't pull any punches. It just makes a lot of things clear about
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relationships that are strained. And there's one chapter in there about living with difficult people.
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Yeah, that's right. And there are a lot of difficult people we are forced to live with.
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So, yeah, it's Doing Relationships God's Way. You can get it on Amazon, you know, where that is.
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Or you can go to liferecovery.com and, you know, get your copy.
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It's a very amazing, it's an amazing book to give you lots of insight,
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a lot of encouragement, a lot of understanding about how to live with, you know,
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with yourself, how to reconcile with yourself.
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You have to live with yourself and love yourself before you can live with and
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have relationships that are of inequality with other people.
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So God bless you guys, and we'll talk to you again soon.